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The Great Acting Blog: “True Failure”

The Great Acting Blog: “True Failure”

Chasing goals we don’t care about is easy because it doesn’t really matter whether we accomplish them or not. It’s not scary because the potential for hurt should we fail, is absent. So we can continue to drift along, with the pressure off, making a half-hearted effort. Later, if we actually accomplish the thing we don’t care about, it’s not exactly exhilarating because we don’t care about it.

Going for something we love however, for something we’re passionate about is altogether a different matter. It can make us feel alone. We are exposed and vulnerable, if we fail here then it will hurt. Something is at stake. Of course then, this kind of accomplishment is tougher, it requires more from us, we have to dig deeper and raise our game, we feel under pressure. The flip side however, is that when we succeed, we may be rewarded with the greatest exhilaration it is possible to know.

In the end, it’s up to us to decide what kind of life we want to lead, what kind of career we want to have, what kind of body of work we want to create. But know that if we turn away from the important work, the work which spooks us because it matters, in favour of the snug comfort of doing work we don’t care about, then we are cowards. This kind of surrender in the face of a true challenge, is called failure.

 

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  • mary cigarettes/ 06.01.2014Reply

    i keep failing and failing…i’ve chased and achieved contracts where having been given sizeable advanced money, faced that strange comedown..
    but in the fullness of time i can see how it’s changed me..the hurt followed by reflection,then finding out in spite of everything i simply can’t or won’t stop,and for all your craziness, the game deepens, and the love for it deepens….life would feel so flat without this itch.

    before you know it,you’re in your middle years.
    funny thing…in the light of learning that you can’t have it your way all the time you become a good personal partner…the ego becomes impossible to inflate because it’s had bullet holes shot through it…it’s a lovely place to arrive at,and love for the work is real.
    i read a thing the other day where a bright man said ‘playing the game is a form of winning the game’,and loosing is simply not stepping up to the plate somewhere in life.
    for many,it takes decades before you realise just how much you love what you do.

    • James/ 06.01.2014Reply

      Fabulous comment, many thanks.

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